Hi,
These are "option products" not "bundled products". That's another setting.
To make option products optional even when they have variants, you can do as explained here:
www.hikashop.com/forum/product-category-...t-option.html#314031
You can add an entry with the namekey add_no_to_options and the value 1 in the table hikashop_config via your phpmyadmin to add the No value to the option dropdowns.
And you can add an entry with the namekey select_option_default_value and the value 0 in the table hikashop_config via your phpmyadmin if you want that "No" value to be selected by default.