Hi,
You have 500 MB of data for carts, with 2.3 millions carts in the database. Most of them must be spam, the rest, too old. Probably only a few dozen is even relevant. We implemented improvments recently against these, but these must be from before.
Empty the hikashop_cart and hikashop_cart_product tables to fix this.
You also have 900MB of data from the Joomla Smart Search. You can try to clear the index and try to reindex the search in the Smart Search component. Also, in the HikaShop Smart search plugin, there is a setting to index variants. Check that this is turned off before reindexing the data. That should eat a lot less memory.
You also have 100MB of emails, for a total of a bit more than 10K emails logged. I would recommend clearing the hikashop_email_log table and making sure the plugin is properly configured, as I was saying in my previous message.
The product and variant data is only 50MB in total. You can ignore it, that's not your problem, as I was expecting.